Writing
Essays on the stories we tell ourselves, the frameworks behind my book, and building communities that last.
The frameworks
One essay for each of the fourteen chapters in Fix Your Thinking, Fix Your Life, in order, a new one every Tuesday. 3 of 14 so far. The full list is on the frameworks page.
The Voice in Your Head Is Younger Than You Think
Why the same story keeps playing long after your life has changed, where it really comes from, and how to start hearing it for what it is.
Framework 1 of 14. 8 min read.
There Are Two Kinds of Fine
Why saying "fine" when you mean no keeps you stuck, and how to tell a fine you chose from a fine you surrendered to.
Framework 2 of 14. 7 min read.
Being Right Is Expensive
Why you keep repeating the same complaint even when you're right, what it pays you to keep it, and how to finally put it down.
Framework 3 of 14. 6 min read.
Meanwhile, at community.inc
My column on community building, published by Community Inc. Read the column at community.inc/meanwhile.
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