Love Has Levels
Which story are you running?
Framework 12 of 14 from Fix Your Thinking, Fix Your Life.Why this one
Comfortable came up when you thought about love. Fine. Steady. Is that what this is?
Maybe. Or maybe you're calling comfort love because nobody ever showed you what's further up the scale. This isn't about leaving anyone. It's about finding out what a 10 feels like, starting with how much of yourself you let in.
You might be settling for a 4 because nobody ever showed you a 10. Take the armor off and find out.
The whole story is chapter 12 of the book. The essay on this one isn't out yet.
Do the exercise
Every chapter ends with one exercise. Chapter 12's is the one to start with. All fourteen are in the free workbook, with room to actually do them. Drop your email and it's yours. You'll also get Loud Thoughts, my newsletter. Unsubscribe whenever you want.
More about it on the workbook page.
Not quite you? A quiz this short can only get so close. The one-line version of all 14 is on the frameworks page. See which one stings.